How to Catch a Liar

Are you being lied to? Find out how you can tell.

1. How is the person speaking?
Although a change in voice can be the tip-off to a lie, experts say that to be sure, you should also pay attention to a person's speech rate and breathing pattern -- if either speeds up or slows down, chances are you're not hearing the whole truth.


2. What is the person saying?
Liars tend to avoid exclusionary words like "but," "nor," "except," and "whereas," because they have trouble with complex thought processes. Liars are less likely to use the words "I," "me," and "mine." In their attempts to distance themselves psychologically from their tall tales, liars will tend to communicate using fewer personal pronouns.

3. Is his face giving it away?
You may think disguising your true feelings is easily accomplished with the help of a smile, but the expressions that flash across your face will give away what you're really thinking -- whether you know it or not. Experts advise paying close attention to the micro-expressions that a face can't hide. These clues are often so difficult to detect that even trained experts have trouble discerning them.


4. How is the person smiling?
A smile can sometimes mask a person's true feelings. Pay close attention to how a person smiles as well as other facial movements. You may be able to detect the emotions he or she is trying to hide -- such as fear, anger, and disgust. A true smile will incorporate both a person's lips and eyes.

5. Does the body language follow the story?
It's more important to examine a person's entire demeanor, as there's no one feature that's apt to give away a liar. Honesty is characterized by features that are in sync with one another -- so besides posture, note the fit between face, body, voice, and speech.


6. Is your subject behaving uncharacteristically?
Experts believe changes in a person's baseline -- how she generally conducts herself -- are worthy of your attention. You should weigh rate of speech, tone of voice, posture, and hand gestures against what you know, along with the context of the situation.

7. Is the question simple or embarrassing?
It's normal for someone to look away when asked a difficult question. But when someone avoids your gaze when asked a simple question, you should be suspicious.

Adapted from Quiz: Can You Spot a Liar?

bad dream...

ngantuk nyeee...aku...today...
last nite didn't sleep well..
such like seeing ghost only ...last nite...
midnite only sleep..and suddenly wake up at 3.00 am in the morning..
such like someone wathching at me...
crazy feeling...and i feel such very scat...and i walk up to my room...
switch off the light..and darkness surronding..
such there a someone looking at me...
wat are u trying to do evil..inside my heart..saying..
i know i can't sleep alone tonight..
and i move out again go to my friend room where she sleep with my niece..
and i sleep with them..
before that i try to sleep in my room...but the scary feeling..surronding me feeling..
is very funny to think it back ...but is true..
and i pray also to God, pray for all of friends..that i know..

and move to my friend room..
and there also can't sleep..i pray to God, God I scat..please protect me tonite..
that i say...than ...i sleep..

wondering..is a realy bad dream...
dream bout something bad...

a lady wearing black clotch and seat lookin at you..
the face look really bad...
no emotion...at all..
no smile...
and she watch...

i depend on God...
to protect me...

amen.

Desert song by Hillsong

This is y prayer in the desert
When all that’s within me feels dry
This is my prayer in my hunger and need
My God is the God who provides

This my prayer in the fire
In weakness or trial or pain
There is a faith proved of more worth than gold
So refine me Lord through the flame

I will bring praise, I will bring praise
NO weapon formed against me shall remain
I will rejoice, I will declare
God is my victory and He is here

This is my prayer in the battle
When triumph is still on its way
I am a conqueror and co-heir with Christ
So film on His promise I’ll stand

All in my life
In every season
You are still God
I have a reason to sing
I have a reason to worship

This is my prayer in the harvest
When favour and providence flow
I know I’m filled to be empted again
The seed I ‘ve received I will sow



_______________ BLESS SUNDAY---------

Beautiful day

Huhuuhuuhhu
I was so happy today. Last night I was dream ..sing a song with strenger friend
" beautiful day...song "
Is beautiful day.....
I have good news on my application. Thank to Lord Jesus.
I luv You Lord, Thanks very much to hear my pray and my heart.

Thanks to you prof, to consider my application..thanks very much..and
thank you...

no wonder i have dream last night , is beautiful day and i wake up with beautiful
day also..thanks to you Lord Jesus God.

So now, all in Father Lord hand...the result, just wait and see..
we will go thru everything...if I have this...wah!!!
is miracle ...and is a wonderful moments to me..

i know what , where is need i should be now, need to focus to do my things..
not such like a bird fly..that doesn't know where to go..
seating my goal..

1 things can do...
before this..
and startup again ur dreams...never give up...as long still living..
doesn't matter what happen surronding...gain ur dreams..until u get it..
no matter..wat people surrondung will says///

to those not support ...the decision..
to those support...the decision..
all I will say thank you babe!!
luve you all..

this is my wish ..my dreams..to have my own..biz...
may be this is the way...
there is so easy way for me to on the top..
Need to learn from the bottom...

"Be humble but confidence"
DO the things that you know you will not pay for it..
their a big reward..

is doesn't matter...you got the reward in this world..
may be later on..oso their a reward...after we die...

wat u expect in this world..that world also you wil get...

any..where...any ...things...

jus be on ur wayy...don't be confuse...don't give up!!!

there is the way...where no more way..to go..there will be...

Be bless..always....

thankful God always...



thanks prof

DIS...appoint ...ed.....

Yesterday i have bad news about my application for my study, I feel just wanna to die..give up...and so...on..
i stay back at office doing all my things...
world such like no meaning to me to stay longger..
wo pu cha tau..wat to do...
another option that
i can't effort to pay...
God no better than me...
that He was know that i can afford to pay for the charges..
well the first option is my thinking and my plan to go on with that
now, the 1st option can't get...
how GOd...
no blessing from parents may be GOd alos not give..
so what the next step..
who will support me if another option to choose..??
how?
any plan?
i feel suck and crazy!
now don't wat to do....

blurrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! front of me...

mum...mum always me go back kampung oso...
want to do wat...lor..

wat to do lor..blurrr..and blurrr....

getting crazy!!!

Gave It All Away Lyrics

Gave It All Away Lyrics

I ..... I will learn to live before I die
will learn to love and learn to try
not to give it all away (give it all away)
She ... she may be
the one that's meant for me
or for the man that I used to be (used to be)
til' I gave it all away (gave it all awayx2)

CHORUS
why hy hy I lay my heart down on the floor
I showed you love, you wanted more re re
but I gave it all away (cry ry ry ry cry ry ry ry)

you taught me to see the better truth
about yourself but about me too (about me too)
I was stupid over you
what could I do

CHORUS
why hy hy I lay my heart down on the floor
I showed you love, you wanted more re re
but I gave it all away (cry ry ry ry cry ry ry ry)

some people wait a lifetime for a chance like this
I've waited enough
baby, no, I won't let you go
I'm sick of tears and being fierce

(I won't let go of you, I won't let go of you, of you, of youx2)

New song through all the day

IN the quiet in the stillness
I know that You are God
In the secret of YOUR presence
I know there I am restored
When You call I won’t refuse
Each new day again I’ll choose

chorus
There is no one else for me
None but Jesus
Crucified to set me free
Now I live to bring Him praise

In the chaos in confusion
I know You’re sovereign still
In the moment of my weakness
You give me grace
To do your will
When You call I won’t delay
This is my song
Through all my days

Chorus
All my delights is in YOU Lord
All of my hopes
All my strength
All my delights is in YOU lord
Forevermore