Saturday, October 16, 2010

friendships..(BFF)

a sweet time,
a hard time,
a true expereinced
abut friendships..

1 by 1 go back to hometown....
year by year time changing...people changing..not such a first love time we met..
without suspicious, without bad intention...jus being friends..
now all chance follow the time of the world..
where to find the first love,
love means everything..
not it means u love some1, (gurl n boy)
but love oso ur enemies, friends and so on..

being good to every1, the moments can't recyecle back,
year 2003-2010 wont repeating anymore..

being gud..nothing else can u do...

love each other. such God love us..

Live is great...depends on us how we define the meaning of friendships..or BFF

sometimes...is hard...but is great to feel everythings...
and you wil find the true friends...when you are in trouble or happy..

who wil be with u that time...

is depen on us...how we to going on...this living..

a simple thing i was find out, don't expect that you will get something from ur friendships,
being honest and don't take any advantages btw each other..

life is short..and we were there 1 days...

1 days...

Tuesday, October 5, 2010

Selalu ada Jalan - by Jonathan (song)

Ketika jalan kulalui
berputar di padang gurun
Engkaulah yang memelihara
hidupku sempurna


ketika jalan yang ku tempuh
berujung di sungai dalam
engkaulah yang
mengerinkannya
untuk kuseberangi

selalu ada jalan
saat seakan tiada jalan
s'bab Tuhan ada di depanku
membuka jalan bagiku

selalu ada jalan
di mana ada kemahuan
biarlah ku hidup selalu
di jalan yang Kau tunjukkan
kepada ku...

what do will do in any situation

What is the first thing will you going to do in the critical situation???
such some realy dying sick? off course you will looking for your creator..that is the last way. This is the last choice for all of us..the last choice...after we work hard to do something else..

but what will you do in happy situation. such you have money, power and popularity?? what you will doing in that time ? do you remmember GOd? friends? that time you will really damn enjoy your life. what will you do? be happy by your goodself. there nothing can stop you to do anything what you want, such shopping, traveling, clubbing, and etc. Only one thing can stop you from doing all this thing. God and problems....that is true..yes...
is true things...in human being situation...

did money can help you friends?______
money one day can finish 1 day with your treatment / medicine

did your heart still want a holiday or traveling arroud all the eroupe contry dear??

i think and guess one day you will get fade up 1 day if still not get the true joyful or happiness..

there 1 day i saw a father and his daughther just lauging away walk togehter the bus station..there don't have anythings in their pocket. even money also a little bit leave for the bus fair. but the joyful and hapiness can see from their face. The joyfull of God in their heart always..

is compare to a father and his son in Mercedes benz car just pass them by.
with a furious faces from his father...the father southed at his son. his soon just seat in the car with no responds and no respect toward his father..

living...there a lot things..you can do...the most thing you need to be careful in money term...and the decision you going to take..your action and your mind toward it...

be careful...be surrender to the 1 that can take away your breath, strength, money to life...is who..only GOd can do it..

October 2010 on 4th

Thank you for everything. THere are purpose when something happen in our life. Recently i lose my way to my sister baby sister house. than i found hari raya open house. did u things is great???

and let say i was thinking that i was found a great man in my life. but ur friends say no, or God say no..than u forget about him..and continue with the living. same goes to him also. both have take decision to stop to see each other or contact each other. that is look great..and will give benefit to each other..and also advantages. is sound..hard but is great thing that i ever did in mylife where i need to decline something that i want in the same time. love is doesn't means to be together, but is also explain where u want the best for your friends. that is the best things when u sacrified in your life. u will smile one day....

God have His own purpose in our life. just believe it, He will give you at the right time and situation. no need to find, He provide for you. when you have faith and believe in Him without obligations..or confusion in your faith..

there a lot things happen in this life , just be thanks giving to Lord Jesus. Whether is happy or sad, just thank giving to Lord Jesus. There a lot things need to learn. whether you in relationship with someone, married or single or whatever situation are you..just be thanks giving to Lord Jesus. Today is the time, there no more time for tomorrowe. We don't know what will happen tomorrow..

thanks to Lord Jesus...

Today i have self-accident at my work place. i have hit the corner at parking place in early in the morning. I say thank you Lord Jesus..may be in future I need new car...no need to heart attach cos of your own action. accept and admitted it your mistake don't know how to estimate the road is// huhhuhu....no hard feeling....thank you to Lord Jesus...

Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Do you have a dreams

Today I ask one of my friends.."dear do u ever dream to be rich? that is my question," she laughing at me...loudly..." u are out of your mind friends.." that she was saying to me..yep ! i was out of my mind. but i gurantee and very sure, who want to be poor forever...true or not?
i asking her back..yeah...as long i live happily with my children, health life and all I thanks God for it. that she saying to me.
yeap is correct, you have everythings also but...u not happy with all arround you ...that is not good sound too...the joy and hapiness is difficult to buy it..there is no "price" for it..forever joy and hapiness is only on JC hand. Those who want it can request and get it..not by money...or wealth we have. Money or wealth we have currently only for temporary..not forever there. One day will finish..and did we hapi with what we have now..

hope soo....

find the true of living...

find the destination...for what purposes??

to earn at much as you want...

and can buy big car, big houses, doing investment...

and what....

and what...the ending...

all you have so...what will you going to do

or...now start thanks giving for everythigs that God have give to .us..
It not wrong to work hard...but all the effort and hardship all most come first wt prayer...don't want day, we regrette wt everything...

little pay...but the joy and rejoice there..can help each other..rather big pay and you also received...curse! everyday from your boss / manager cost the thing/work have yet done...

just find which way you want to choose..

is up to u babe..and gud luck!!!

Monday, September 6, 2010

Fate vs Free Will

Fate vs Free Will
Predestination, Free Will, or Both?

Are we victims of inescapable fate, or do we really have the power to create our own destiny? That is the age-old question.

The Scientific View
In the 17th Century Isaac Newton formulated his laws of motion and gravitation which gave rise to the concept of a mechanistic "clockwork" universe in which everything proceeded deterministically. Everything that happened was no more than the inevitable consequence of all it followed, including human behavior. God and the soul were redundant.

The clockwork universe was shattered in the 20th century. First Einstein discovered neither time nor space are as we perceive them, but are intertwined in a 4-dimensional continuum. Next Quantum physics found that, far from following principles of cause and effect, reality at its fundamental level is inherently indeterministic.

Yet the prevailing view of science as expounded by the likes of Richard Dawkins is that life (including humanity) is no more that sophisticated machinery.

Human Experience
But how often in life are we confronted with our own free will? In such simple matters as whether to have tea or coffee to life-changing events like marriage, relocation or changing occupation.

At times such as these when we feel the weight of destiny in our hands can we really doubt that we truly possess freedom of the will? Indeed, throughout the reign of the "clockwork" universe Spiritual and religious traditions continued to flourish, suggesting that at essence humankind knew better than science.

So what of fate? Does our free will make redundant the concept of predestination? Not at all. Despite the randomness of the sub-atomic universe the perceived world consisting of the effect of huge numbers of these micro-events does behave deterministically to a large degree, hence Newton's observations. For example, if you save a few dollars each week your bank balance will grow, if you don't wrap in cold weather you'll likely catch cold…

The Spiritual Interpretation
In Spiritual terms we choose the lessons for a particular incarnation before we are born. While on earth our Spiritual memory is hidden from all but the most enlightened to prevent it distracting us from fulfillment of purpose. Instead we have the earthly free will necessary for us to gain the experience we came for. Thus we have free will throughout our time here.

However, Spirit arranges for us to be presented with the conditions that give us the chance to learn our chosen lessons. Of course our free will may avoid these lessons, in which case we will continue to be presented with conditions suitable for fulfillment of our chosen purpose.

Our free will is our greatest gift. It is the manifestation of the spark of Divine (Spirit) within us all. It is what separates us from piece of rock.

The war against sleep
But how many of us squander our greatest gift by not making full use of it? Mind is lazy and craves routine that can be delegated to the subconscious. In the comfort of routine the consciousness is free to indulge itself in its typical aimless wanderings.

So attractive is the familiarity of routine that most of us don't even face the dilemma of choosing between tea and coffee, we just have the same drink every time. We become the nightmarish biological automata envisioned by science.

But isn't to squander the gift of free will also to fail to make the most of our incarnation? For it is only through exercise of will that we test ourselves in this environment and thus learn what we came to learn.

Just as our muscles grow weak through lack of exercise so does our will. We should try to switch off our mental autopilot on a regular basis. Vary what we drink in the morning. Take a different route to work or shopping. Watch a different tv show, or better still switch the tv off altogether.

The more we exercise our free will, the more open and aware we become to the opportunities that surround us. Opportunities that many simply don't notice, blinded by the drug of routine.

Fate undoubtedly influences the circumstances in which we operate. Someone born with a disability is unlikely to become a champion of a physical sport. We should be sensitive to fate and what it tells us about our true purpose. But beware of using fate as an excuse for failure. "I was unlucky", "circumstances were against me", etc etc. Such things may be true, but before adopting them be sure you have exercised your will to the best of your ability.

http://new-age-spirituality.com/selfhelp/freewill.html

Thinking Out of the Box

Thinking Out of the Box
What is Thinking Out of the Box?
Thinking out of the box is the mode of thought that dares to challenge conventional wisdom, ie it dares to question beliefs so deeply held by so many that they are considered almost sacred. Thinking out the box is an all too rare quality, but when applied it can bring revolutionary leaps in human progress. Even where the existing ways really are most appropriate, an "out of the box" critic can actually enhance their validity by forcing their proponents to justify them.

By contrast, thinking inside the box is following convention. doing what everyone else does just because that's the way it's always been done. Thinking in the box allows survival, but without innovation we cannot do much more than stand still and stagnate.

Why Think Out of the Box?
Do we survive or thrive? If it ain't broke don't fix it runs the old adage. But evolution is based on the continued improvement of that which already works. From the very earliest forms of life that gained a foothold in a barren universe progress has come from doing things different than how they'd been done before.

A common human tendency is to seek the acceptance and approval of our peers. Another is the desire to operate within our comfort zone. The first tendency means we tend to conform to popular opinion. Perhaps we feel safer in a crowd, are afraid of possible ridicule. Perhaps we once held contrary views, but have had these stifled by societal pressure. The second tendency means we simply accept what we are told because we are too lazy to think for ourselves. Add to those the conditioning to conform, be a good citizen etc etc etc...

And by following these tendencies we can survive the various trials of life. We can get a job, make enough to live, with perhaps enough left over for a yearly vacation. We'll certainly survive, but we'll be anonymous, and when our time on earth is finally done we'll leave behind nothing but the memories of a few loved ones.

By thinking out of the box we give ourselves the chance to go beyond this bare existence and begin to fulfill the true potential of our earthly incarnation. Not everyone can be a Da Vinci or Einstein, but we can all try to maximize our own particular potential. Given the most precious gift of incarnation that is surely our most basic duty.

How to Think Out of the Box
Firstly, don't get in a rut. Avoid the comfort zone. Push yourself. Accept, and actively seek out new challenges. Take chances. Avoid routines, or if you end up with one, change it for change's sake. If you usually drink coffee at breakfast, try a cup of tea instead. If you normally take route A, try route B, or C, once in a while.

Get into the habit of questioning and challenging established practice. Not all established practice is wrong, but where it is right, rising to a challenge will strengthen its claim to legitimacy.

Is there a different way of doing this/that? Or rather how many different ways can you think of? Allow yourself freedom to brainstorm on a frequent and regular basis. In brainstorming phase accept everything that comes into your head, don't censor yourself. The wilder the idea, the better. Of course, brainstorming needs to be followed by rationalization, but at a later time. Keep a note of all your ideas, even the initially rejected ones. You never know when they might be useful.

Thinking out of the box is hard. It uses more energy and creates more stress than simply going with flow. Very few can comfortably operate out of the box 100% of the time. If we can employ that faculty 10% of the time we are probably doing better than 90% of the population. It follows that we need to judge very carefully which situations are worth making that extra effort for. Most times it's fine to drift along on auto-pilot, saving our out of the box thinking for things that matter to us most.

All we can take from this world is experience, all else is illusion. We live each moment only once, so we might as well make the most of it. And we make the most of it not by accepting, but challenging accepted ways.

Acticle From: newage spritual

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