6 Personality traits to admire and acquire

Let’s face it: In life, we come across all kinds! As humans, we often focus on those who are negative or toxic leaving it difficult to appreciate those who are positive and healthy. Seeking out individuals with healthy, positive traits, however, may do a lot of good. The more we can surround ourselves with those who are positive and healthy, the more we may model those positive behaviors.
If you really think about it, once in awhile you come across a person who knocks you off your socks…legitimately. Maybe they have a fantastic outlook on life, even during difficult times. Maybe they are really humble, although they are extremely gifted. Maybe they make you feel special. All of these are good.

Below, I've listed some of the traits I admire most in people. Although I could probably list a dozen characteristics, I thought I’d list those that seem to be the rarest or most difficult to find.

1) Selflessness:

In a world where many people don’t have the time or the interest in others, selflessness is a quality that seems to be less and less common. People can be selfless in the time they give, the ability to listen, their level of patience and the love that they give. Those who are giving and generous in nature have the power to make others feel loved, appreciated and special. While those who are self-absorbed tend to do the exact opposite.

2) Tolerance:

Those people who are tolerant make us feel comfortable with who we are and special as individuals. All of us are different, and many of us have quirks and idiosyncrasies. After all, these differences make the world go round. Having the ability to accept people for who they are and not expect them to be who we want them to be is important in life, happiness and in the health of our relationships.

3) Genuineness:

Having the ability to be real, authentic and honest is unique in a world where we put so much emphasis on the superficial. Feeling comfortable in one’s skin and being true to one’s self is one of the most beautiful traits one can possess. To have a REAL relationship with someone requires honesty…it requires hearing and giving input or feedback that may not always be popular…it means having the strength to tell it like it is and to not be afraid to face the consequences for doing so…it means loving people for who they really are…deep down…and not for what they appear to be.

4) Sensitivity:

So often we are focused on what is important to ourselves that we can forget about those around us. Those who are sensitive are often thoughtful, appreciative and loving, in a way that makes you feel understood, valued and respected. Often, sensitive people are also self-aware, making them mindful of how they impact others with what they do and say.

5) Integrity:

Call me cynical, but I think this characteristic is especially difficult to find. In a time when people will do things that are underhanded to make an extra buck (Bernie Madoff…can you hear me?), expose their personal lives to the public so they can be famous (balloon boy’s dad and any other reality TV mongers) and do what feels good in the moment without necessarily thinking of the consequences (Tiger Woods), integrity is a characteristic that is especially unique today.

6) Humility:

Whether someone is super-smart, extremely talented or drop-dead gorgeous, there is something extra special about them if they don’t come across as though they know it all the time. Humility in those that possess extraordinary traits make others feel special too.

The climb by Hannah Montana

The claim
I can almost see it
That dream I am dreaming
But there’s a voice inside my head saying
“You’ll never reach it”

Every step I’m taking
Every move I make feels
Lost with no direction
My faith is shaking

But I gotta keep trying
Gotta keep my head held high

There’s always gonna be abother mountain
I’m always gonna wanna make it move
Always gonna be uphill battle
Sometimes I’m gonna have to lose

Ain’t about how fast I get there
Ain’t about what’s waiting on the other side
It’s the climb

The struggles I’m facing
The chances i’m taking
Sometimes might knock me down
But no, I’m not breaking

I may not know it
But these are the moments that
I’m gonna remember most, yeah
Just gotta keep going

And I got to be strong
Just keep pushing on

‘Cause there’s always gonna be another mountain
I’m always gonna wanna make it move
Always gonna be a uphill battle
Sometimes I’m gonna have to lose

Ain’t about hw fast I get there
Ain’t about what’s wating on the other side
It’s the climb, yeah!

There’s always gonna be another mountain
I’m always gonna
Be an uphill battle
Somebody’s gonna have to lose

Ain’t about how fast I get there
Aint abt whats waiting on the other side
It’s the climb, yeah!

Keep on moving, keep climbing
Keep the faith, baby
It’s all about, it;s all about the climb
Keep the faith, keep your faith, whoa.

Nice words..- to be watch (6.2.10 @ Saturday)

Phillipians 3:12-13 says, “I don’t mean to say I am perfect. I haven’t learned all I should even yet, but I keep working toward that day when I will finally be all Christ saved me for and wants me to be. No dear brothers, I am still not all I should be, but I am bringing all my energies to bear on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead.”

What are you becoming? Consider these words…

Watch your thoughts – they become words
Watch your words – they become actions
Watch your actions – they become habit
Watch your habits – they become character
Watch your character – for it becomes your destiny

Start from "ZERO"

Sometime when I look arround, look into rich people life, wou! is awesome to see their life where they can spend at much as they want in their life, shops the things whatever they want, no rules, no boundries...the money is still there for them to shops. Is look and very-very intrestings..how kind to have that types of the life. No work also the money is still there. Is will make us happy to have the things what ever in our life? may be yes, may be not. But, still there is a hole, where you some people doesn't know how to live. Start from the zero is more better when we start at 90% whereof we learn a little bit, a lots empty out there..

Is great when you start your living from zero point. Start eveythings in your live from the zero point, learn everythings. Be greatful to have your living, don't regreat to have it. Some of us, is very lucky when they was born, jus out from the worms he/she directly feel the air-conditioner and be seater in Mercedes Benz, BMW and etc or to be compare just come out from the worms just using fans and using public transport..huhuuu...which more great baby here? Which one will be to be very independent and which one is not???

Is the living is by choice?

Everyone wish to have a beautiful living. Everyone have a dream. is doesn't matter how to have it is depending on individual to get it and how he/she to have it, what is the plan. Some of us, have the guidlines to have it, some of us doesn't have the guidlines to have his/her dreams. He/she was looking her/himself..

let we continue..tomorrow..tiring

February 2, 2010

Is a great at day, a new begining in my life. Is should be 1 month have been over just like that, waiting and waiting. Should I repeat my old mistake (the past mistake) for this year. Oh God, the answer is NO...of course...NO, NO way man!!!

why should we waiting for unsuree confirmation.. that we don't anythigs yet..A month for this year have pass with a busy living with overload works. So, when can I focus to myself??? Why I always to be sacrified..for nothing..but sometimes sacrified will give the good result also than...will the heart will smile, that can't buy with $$$$$$$$$.

Off course talking bout $$$$$$$$ sure woundn't finish..talk lor...

Starting this year also with a sad heart, my mum and dad both is not feeling well. I was thinking and thinking bout them night and day. Is rely make me worried about them. How there are??? and how..Am sure that last year I seldom bring them in my prayer..that is my mistake...God please forgive me for this 1, I please YOU to take care of my parents as YOU take care of me..Please give them a good health GOD.

Today, I take medical leave, cos I know my body can't stand anymore. Is rely tired since last week...with full schedule...and a lot things happen.

worried about dad, mum, and so on..

so much..

everythings..i surrender liao lor God...

amen.