when some1 luv u

•I would think it would be in how the person interacts with friends, family, etc. when the skeptic partner is not around. I was in a relationship in which at first I faked loving this person for sex. After a while, I went into a depression. I must say out of my own psychological decisions in this matter. People should be warned of narcissistic sex addicts. I was one of them and I believed I possibly suffered just as much as the person who loved me. In the end when I broke up with her. I finally heard the birds chirping. The truth will set you free. I think what is essential is never having to pretend to be anyone on both sides. People like to wear masks in fear and waste a lot of time with the belief there is no true love and just sex. In which at this moment I believe.

•He should always think of me and even express his love to me. Yes he can think of you all the time in the wrong way. He can call you every minute with the intention of bedding you and making you a statistic. What I would suggest is give the time dimension of love a chance. After ample time you can separate the wine from the vinegar.

•The only thing I have to suggest is don't say I love you again just say I care about you until he says it to you without you saying it first make sure he is looking you in the eyes and if it is at the perfect moment then he probably means it and complain that he doesn't say it in front of his friends, if he does he loves you.

•You'll have to ask: There's no way to know for sure, you shouldn't rush into things. If you have been going out for a while and you feel ready to tell them the way you feel then wait until it feels right and go for it, be prepared that they might not feel as strongly yet, but it doesn't mean they never will. If you think it might be a little soon or you haven't gone out together I wouldn't rush into things, make it clear you really care for them and wait until later to tell them how you feel, you don't want to scare them off. The only way to tell if someone loves you is to ask, but be careful how you do it.

•If you find someone who understands and endures the hardships, enjoys the good times to the fullest, then you will know. Time will tell. It is a lifetime of learning, teaching and caring for one another. Hey! where do I sign up for class?

•I will know that the person i love loves me too, maybe if he always look for me, which made his day complete.

•Only way you know someone loves you is by how much sacrifices they will put up to make you happy. Being unselfish, caring about you more then himself. It goes both ways though. If everyone thought of what would make their lover's happy instead of what makes them happy, they'll be a overflow of love. Love is sacrifices.

•I believe and feel if a man or woman loves you they wouldn't do anything to hurt you. And knowing we all are imperfect I feel that if a problem was acknowledged that that person would come together with unconditional love and work this out. They would appreciate you for your worth and help you when you are in the need of them. Love is not thinking to ones self " what is this going to do for me", but will say or think "what can I do to help this person I love". But when you get people who are always thinking about themselves all the time. That is not real true love. And a person must be worthy of love as well. Some don't know how to love and leave you bitter for the next person who you try to love.

•Actions speak louder than words. It's better to know someone loves you without being told 'cause anyone can say 'I love you' and also it does not matter how long you're together to say 'I love you' cause love has no time limit you go by when it's there it's there, say it when you feel it and it could be infatuation but I would hope you'd know the difference.

•You can see from her eyes, body language and her attention to you.

•Well, to tell if a guy LOVES you: While you're seeing him, and those times when you are not physically together, you won't feel lonely inside, as if something that you can't put your finger on is missing. You'll feel absolutely right about the whole thing. Little "red flags" or "empty holes" inside of you won't be there while you are with him or while you are not with him. It's a feeling as if things all around are complete and with no confusion.

•Together you can both act silly or even goofy. Maybe even stupid together once in a while, while in public or around others you both will act "mature" (whatever that is supposed to be). You'll be able to talk about ANYTHING together without having "taboo" subjects.

•Aside from him actually looking you in the eye and telling you that he is in love with you, and you feeling it, the other signs I've mentioned as well are what I believe to be a factor too. You should feel like there are more in depth growth going on aside from how great the sex is between you both or on top of how merely polite he is. There's more to it than great sex and polite ways.

•Tell them that you love them. Stick around for a while to see if they say it back. Casually mention it every once in a while after that, when the do something particularly nice or when you are parting or saying goodnight. If they don't say it within say, a month or so, then ask just ask them. It may not occur to them to say it, but by asking them after giving them a chance and the hints to do so on their own, you'll know if they do now or think they ever will.

•You know that someone loves you when they look deeply into your eyes and says in a soft voice that they love you and no matter what happens or what else is said you get that feeling inside knowing that deep down you love them too. And you just feel so amazing inside. They will love you and hold on to you, they will be there in a time of need. That is how you know..

•When you get the sweet phone calls out of the blue or when they look into your eyes and you can see the love. You can almost see right to there soul. You can tell by their body movements when you're around. You can really feel in your heart. When they are not around how much you miss them.

•Most males and females will agree that the best way to find out how your significant other feels about you is to ask directly.

•You don't is the answer to that, you'll never know that the person you've fallen for loves you back you just have to trust that they do. I'm in love with a person who lives a 5 hour drive away from me and so I get to see him once a month, he could have a secret life away from me and flirt with all the girls in his city for all i know but I don't worry about that because I really trust that he loves me just as much as I love him, maybe even more. I don't know this I just trust in my instinct. Trust in yours too and you'll be fine.

•If there's a slight doubt in your mind that he / she doesn't love you back then he / she hasn't convinced you enough and therefore doesn't love you enough to make you believe how he / she feels.. therefore maybe doesn't feel that way at all. Its not about you knowing if he / she loves you it's about him / her making you believe in it.

•I think it's a reciprocated love. When you start investing your time and effort and he reciprocates it with love and care from there you can already prove it. It takes two tango.

•Your instincts will tell you. They wont lie. Mine didn't ;-). Listen to what your gut tells you (untainted by either hopefulness or pessimism this is the best way of telling), it'll tell you whether there's an electric connection or not. But hey, maybe I got lucky.

•You should be able to ask him and tell him to tell the truth if he does or not because my boyfriend loves me and tells it to me.

•If you can't feel it chances are it ain't there. Time is precious. Tell them how you feel. They should then admit, commit or quit....

•You'll feel it and just know that they do.. It's a feeling after all, it's magic.

•To find true love: Love this person with all your heart and hope that it's mutual. You'll know if it is.

•You will know if a person loves you if he/she will do everything just to make you smile in every single way. You will know if someone loves you if he/she sacrifices his/her own emotions just to make you happy. You will know if someone loves you he/she Shows his care for you trough actions not through words. You will know if someone loves you if he/she accepts you know matter who you are wholeheartedly.

•If you are in love with that person, you two must be close and chances are, they love you back. You should take a chance and just tell them, even though a close friendship is at risk. Try to look for hints that suggest they love you, for a little while. Then when you have seen enough proof, confess your love! Try sudden things like hugging from behind, and see if they blush. Give them many opportunities to confess THEIR love, or to hint about it.

•All of these answers are correct in my eyes. Love is different to different people. But all love has a few things in common, trust and understanding. To understand and accept a persons flaws isn't always an easy thing to do. But one who is able to accept a person as a whole, flaws and imperfections included, is capable of truly loving. when you get that feeling that they couldn't do anything wrong, or anything to make you hate them... you know you love them. Its an understanding that can be seen... you can see it in their eyes. and when you two are cuddled up or as close as can be, and you still feel like they should be closer... you know that you are in love. you think about them constantly... never missing a minute. you anticipate the next time you get to see them. its so hard to explain... it's a gut feeling that you just know. Trust your instincts.

•Also, that person welcomes you into his/her life, trusts you, treats you with respect, and is not mean to you. I am happily married and I know my husband loves me because he always puts my needs before his own, and I try to do the same for him.

copy write from wiki answer-bout luv

Loved by the One You Love

1) He most certainly likes you and values your friendship from what you say. At the moment you both perhaps LOVE being with each other and are attracted to each other. Maybe that is all you are going to know for now.

2) Only you can decide whether or not to trust another by offering your love.

3) I guess the only thing to rely on is some well-structured communication & time. Only these two factors will show you the way & lead you towards understanding.

4) There's not enough said for time being a factor for love. Time can prove a lot of the elements needed for love - care and concern for the other, not being demanding of them, loyalty, continued friendship over time and distance, affection, understanding and acceptance of their faults and that they are not perfect. Saying you "love" someone is a lot easier than really loving them.

5) I just don't think that a couple of weeks is time enough for you to really feel love. I think this is just an excitement/infatuation stage. It can lead to love,but it's not a good idea to hurry or pressure those feelings this fast. If you can only trust him if he loves you, I think you're asking too much of him already. Trust him as a friend and continue the relationship.

6) Loving is unconditional, meaning there is no conditions that the person you love loves you back. However, to know if someone loves you all one needs to look at is e actions of that person. Words are never enough, unless they are backed by actions that match what is being said. Should some one claim they love you then hurt you with their actions then most definitely that would not in my book be considered love.

7) You really don't know how much someone loves you. Love isn't a thing that just happens like in a fairy tale movie of "love at first sight." (I wonder what she or he will look like in "love at first sight" in 50 years' time!!) There has to be a common bond. A place in your heart and mind where you can go. Sometimes by yourself, and other times with each other. Because.... People in love will purposely hurt each other with spiteful words and actions. Hoping that the other will understand by forgiving and comforting. But.. that kind of unconditional love is very rare. Its too easy to give up and see if the grass is greener elsewhere.


8) Love is when you care about someone else more than yourself. That's it. A good indicator is if they want to be your friend as well as being romantically involved with you.

9) Love is something that you grow into like a young child growing into teenager clothing. Love just don't happen overnight, in one day or in one week for that matter. I think what you feel for each other in the beginning is more attraction and curiosity and with time it can change into love, but in order for true love to happen there has to be trust, honesty, sincerity and compassion in the relationship. That is the only way you really get to know that person and to know if that person really loves you.

10) Love is something you are sure about there is no doubt. It's a strong feeling you can't explain, But you know - because you can feel it. Everyone can show love, but can they feel love. We all show our love in different ways. How about the greatest couple, who's husband buys her flowers and gifts and takes her out on a regular basis, and we all say how lucky she is, and than BOOM... The next thing you hear is they are going through a bitter divorce... and nobody can believe it. Why - because he showed his love through guilt, but she never felt love, oh sure she got a lot of flowers and gifts, but none of that matters if you don't feel love. So just because someone doesn't show you love but you can feel it - than you know it's love. You know the feeling I'm talking about... You can't make someone love you, yea in time they might grow to love, but that's a different kind of love (we all love are coffee in the morning, but were not in love with our coffee)Point being when you love someone they will love you back, there will be no doubts, because you know in your heart... He Loves Me... They don't need time to think about it...

11) Love is a mindset that commits one person to engage into actions that include sacrifice, respect and compromise for the purpose of benefiting the person being loved. They are carried out with respect to the other person. Without respect, there's no love. True love is a continual process over time; it is not the "fuzzy feelings" or the "intense physical chemistry/attraction". These are simply lust. Unfortunately today's young men and women are so easily confused between love and lust.

12) Love is commitment made in our cerebral cortex secondary to a brief period of excitement generated by our pleasure-seeking center, hypothalamus. Lust is a singular hormonal/emotional response driven by our pleasure seeking brain center. Love includes emotional response and actions. With only emotional responses, it's mere lust and fantasy. It is essential to have a clear definition of what love encompasses in one's mind. It can avoid a lot of hurtful feelings and encounters in dating.

13) Like everything in life, love is relative. It means many different things to many different people. Perhaps this is because it is only an idea. Imagine if everyone who read the same description of a character in a story saw the exact same visual image in their mind? Same thing with love...each person will have a distinct idea of it.

14) For me, love is caring about the person, being there for them no matter what it costs you (physically, emotionally, etc.), and a willingness to endure all things necessary to keep that person in your life. So, do you love someone? It depends: Do you find yourself giving up other ventures just to spend an extra moment with them? Do you enjoy talking (really talking) with them? Does this person bring out a necessity in you to be the best you can be, not for your benefit, but for their benefit?

15) Probably the most universal sign of true love is friendship: Is this person your best friend? Because, if you two truly love each other, your time together will be like time spent between two best friends. Do you run around worried about what your best friend is doing? Do you ever question if you can trust your best friend? No! And that is the key. True love is when your lover is also your best friend. And that, I'm sorry to say, is very hard to achieve.


16) LOVE is the feeling deep inside that tells you when you are apart that you desperately want to be back with your loved one. It is the feeling of wanting to be as one, together! One of the most important things (already mentioned many times) is that this person should be your "best friend" and should always be considered before anyone else. They are your "world", your "rock" and should be loved unconditionally 100% of the time. It is when you want to tell the world "I love this person and I want to grow old with this beautiful person".

17) One final thing (and this is strictly my opinion): If the two of you do not make each other laugh then there is no reason to pursue a relationship. After all, if you can't laugh all you can do is cry

- copy right from wiki answer-

Finally my freedom time

Thanks to God for everythings He have done in me. Last friday is my last day. Feel free to do anything I wish and I want to do. Thank to God. Today I just want to relex myself, don't want to do anything first. Tomorrow I will start to do my things as arrangement. My blazer stil at old office, I need to take t back. I am forgot about it. Only for my blazer only, I am forgot about it..

Feel free and feel better. Almost 6 years with last company. Teach me alot things. Teach me a lot things about living & legal things.

In this world there a lot of type of people, some to be honest to be friend with you, some there are hidden reason to be friend with you. There a lot things that you need to be watch arround. Last time, there one lady teach me about a relationship with a guys arround us. Whether is true or not.. up to us to decide. All is our respond, so depend on us whether us want to follow or not. She inform me to think positvely about living, think positively and we will get a good things in live also, if we think bad thing the bad thing also will come. So be ++++ all the time even the bad things come..just be positive as normal...living in HIS law and HIS instruction you will gettting the best things that ever you think..be positively..

A lot type of people in this world and seldom to find which is truely honest with you. That is normal thing even our best friend also can betrayed you. Shot you from the back, is normal thing to us. There is human being character where everyone looking for profit for themselves, there seldom to find a person to do the work done without looking something back. Is to difficult in the real world of KL. Is find the type of people.

God have everything plan for us. Believe in Him and surrender everythings. Don't make something stupid. Later you will harvest the fruit also bad thing..so put the a good thing in people also they will give a good things for you too..Not harm to be friend with all of people, there also human being. The diffence you know what is the belief and the way of that person to grow up day by day than he or she will believe that he or she can live without any God. Most of this happen to does a rich man or rich women where there believe in their own strength and knowledge.

I have attend before a games organize by Church. The games call The Journey. In the journey you can learn a lot things. THere are GOd also works in His time in this Journey and I believe it. When I reach a mozek already broken where is need to arrange by yourself, when i see at the mozek, my mind say it simple to arrange.

ceh...okey go ahead angelina..what you can do than...ehmm...i try arrange the mozek used my own mind and my knowledge is still not finish..till 5 minutes.., 6, 7, 8, 9, and 10 minutes...oh GOd what happen to my intelligence, what happen to my knowledge I have God. what happen...God..and finally i come to releaze there a small words say in my heart " angelina you can't do it without GOD Help, how can you just used your own strength and knowledge without GOD help, all everythings you have know is GOD give it to you, how can you forget HIM when you have all things, now can you arrange the simple mozek without GOD help, can't rite?" I am feel realy shy with myself there..all the time, I have noted that all I try to all thing myself without asking a handed from GOD, when at the end if I can't do it only I come to GOd, please help me, this is always human being do all the time..

Recently I have meet a friend, that doesn't believe in master JC. He really with his own principal and he wound believe in Him. I also not understand why have really kind of this people. Master JC really love us, only master JC can work in his living..

Whatever it's I will thank to him for his kindness and caring of me. Thanks..you are good friend in this time. Well done, I also what excatly you looking into me. I also don't know. my knowledge ? my relationships? there is any hidden things that i don't know..so ..how..LORD God..i need to forget everythings..about him yeahh...is true..
is depend on the answer later on..what he going to say..so i will forget about everythings..than...

let that all for today...By the way DAP win at SIBU sarawak...is a gud news???

Your Dating Decisions and The Bible

There are many things that we can read in the Bible to guide us through life. Perhaps the most important parts of the Bible are the parts that tell us how to live and how to relate to others in a way that is suited to the Christian morals and values. If you want to use the Bible to guide your dating decisions, you aren’t going to find much if you search for the word “Date” or “dating”. The Bible isn’t going to have a list of things you should and should not do on a date, or a list of acceptable behaviors in someone you’d like to date. It’s not going to have an age limit for doing certain things, and it isn’t going to spell out for you the right decisions to make in today’s world of technology, fast cars, and sex.

Instead, the Bible is going to guide your dating decisions by showing you and helping you to understand two major points of Christian beliefs that you should incorporate into your life. These two things are, number one, how other people treat you and number two, how you treat other people.

If you are going to use the Bible to guide you through dating, these are the two main parts that you should find important and that you should use to help you make decisions when it comes to dating. You should be dating good people who are going to treat you well, and not just in the way that means they are going to buy you things or take you to expensive places. You should be dating people who are going to treat you as you deserve to be treated. Treating people in a good, Christian manner involves treating both of their insides and outsides with respect. You should be using the Bible to help to guide you to people who are going to treat your body with respect, as well as your mind, your soul, and your life. You should be finding people to date who are going to listen to you when you talk and who are going to respect you, inside and out. You should also be letting the bible help you by guiding you towards the people who are going to live their lives in the same way that you want to live yours – with Christianity at the focal point.

The other half of the equation is that you should use the Bible to help you guide your dating decisions by showing you how to treat the people that you are dating. This is something that is sometimes overlooked by people who are dating, because they are only concerned with how they are being treated, and fail to see that the other important part of dating, as the Bible teaches us, is to find someone to date who you respect and who you are going to treat with those same basic principles. You should be following these same guidelines as you go through the world, and as you get more and more into Christian dating.

You shouldn’t expect the Bible to have a chapter on what to do on a date, or on how you know if a date is for you. Using the Bible to guide your dating decisions is something that takes a little bit of work. You have to use the Bible to help you understand the way that you should live your life and the way that you should treat others, and then you have to follow through by taking these life lessons and applying them to your Christian dating.

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